Cheating Partner? What Should You Do?

I have had many  relationships and learned a little from every single one. Some ended because of too many differences in opinion, some because we were too different and liked different things but one ended because of my girlfriend cheating on me.

From my personal life I can tell you this much. I found out that my girlfriend was cheating on me and spent many nights thinking and asking myself what I should do. I was very down, depressed and tired of life. At least that is how I felt.

I truly loved my girlfriend and we were together for 5 years. I decided to forgive her and forget about the whole thing. Making my decision was not easy, but living with it and acting like nothing happened was even harder.

After a while I did manage to almost forget and was able to live and treat my girlfriend normally. I thought that I did the right thing and that everything would be great from now on. I couldn't have been more wrong.

After a few short months my girlfriend cheated on me again and after I found out, she was trying to tell me that she would never do it again. I was hearing exactly the same words as I did the first time she cheated.

I didn't even bother to think about the situation and very quickly made up my mind and we broke up. I did not want to live with a thought in the back of my mind that she might do it again.

I learned a very valuable lesson from the whole ordeal that I would like to share with you today. I learned that if you are with someone who you love very much, care for them, cherish them and try to always be the best you can to that person and they cheat on you, do not forgive them.

Use all of the strength you have within you and leave them behind. Dump them the same day and don't waste your precious time with that person any more. You deserve better and I assure you that there is a right person out there for everyone. Someone who will appreciate you for you and will feel about you the same way you feel about them.

I know that whoever is in a relationship and cheats on their partner, that person cannot be forgiven. The simple reason is this: If they did it once that means that they are capable of doing it again and most likely will.

( It is with man's eyes.. )