Love : Weakness or STRENGTH ?

I was asked by my colleague ,Madam, can you give me your opinion about love, love is weakness or strength ? According to me love can not be define in words, as love has no meaning as well as love has endless meaning. Love has been defining till today and it will be defining forever. Every one defines meaning of love according to their experience.Some time it can be most powerful, and some time it can be weakness.If you try to find true meaning of love , If you ask to different - different people,you will get different-different answers.

Whenever, we alone then we need someone to love. When we get, we think we are happiest person,. when we get all according to our choice, we feel we are so lucky , when we get something wrong then we think we are unlucky. Sometime, when we love some one , sometime we hate them who was loved ones. why we love and hate the same person? No one can give satisfactory answers because there can be different - different reason, so there can be different-different answers.

Why we discover meaning of love ? Why we want answers of unanswerable question ? There are so many up and down comes in our life ,choices can be change,lovers can be change,situation can be change , our mentality can be change, in coming future all thing can be change, what is going to happen in coming future we don't know, then how can we find the answer of question which has not raised ? what is happening in other life and it will be happen in our life also?How can we justify that our problem will be the same? we decide according to our mentality ,when our mentality is different to each other, then how answer can be the same? in the same situation all people do not take same decision then, Is it possible to get 100% right answer?

If we can not find the answer then why we disturb our present life. what is we  have , we should accept it. Whenever any question will be raised, whenever situation will change , then you try to find answer, not now. Sometime we feel, love is weakness and sometime it is strength.It is requirement of circumstance which we face every day. It is feeling so do not try to give it a meaning,do not try to explain meaning of love  in the words.

According to me,love has different- different meaning in the different - different   situation . It is always change.Love is not a weakness not a strength, it is need of ourself. Sometime it empower us , sometime it disturbs us. whenever we alone ,we need . Whenever, we busy, We need not love . We can not do every thing with love as well as  we can do every thing without love also.It is inner feeling , it is our inner weakness, it is our inner strength.

I have bitter experience in my love life , in spite of that I believe Love is Love with endless meaning.I have no doubt about purity of love. I say, if you love someone, then you will be loved by someone also. So,Do not ask anyone about it, it is purely individual, it is purely personal.

Apologies for cheating on your partner

We all make mistakes, and some of them are bigger than others. No one can deny the fact that cheating on a spouse or a committed partner is a big one. So what do you do once the damage is done, and better still, how do you deal with the problem and fix the situation … and, furthermore, can it be fixed?

Why?

The first thing to understand is that cheating often signifies that there is something wrong with, or missing from your marriage/relationship. You will be unable to go forward until you analyse what the problem is.

Communicate

If you were caught cheating on him, he'll be very angry, and will most likely ask many detailed questions. These are going to be hard to answer ... but be honest. If you shut down now and refuse to answer further mistrust can develop.

In order to fix it, you're going to have to reprove your love, which means dealing with his lack of trust for you over a LONG period of time. Be willing to call him if you're going to be late, and if he asks you to be in touch, then BE in touch. Furthermore, don't give him reasons not to trust you. If he asks you to come home early ... come home early.

Understand that, in situations like this, emotions will run deep and strong

By your actions you've torn away a piece of his heart and that scar, like any other, can last for the rest of his life. That doesn't mean you can't salvage the relationship. Explain to him that there is no excuse for your actions and that cheating was an inappropriate solution. Let him know with what aspects of the relationship you're not happy and consider counselling.

Apologise

Make sure you deliver a complete and proper apology to your partner. This CAN be the first step in the long road to forgiveness. Don't place blame or try to justify your actions. Nothing short of admitting fault, apologising, and communicating about the problem, will help the situation.

Cut off communication completely with the third party

Obviously your partner isn't the only one involved in this now that you've cheated. You've taken an outsider into your relationship as well. You need to contact the other person, and explain to them that your actions were wrong, and that you need to repair your relationship with your partner. To do this, you will need to cut off all ties to and communication with the third party.

Patience

Don't set a time limit for how long your partner is "allowed" to remain hurt or angry. You set this process in motion so you must be prepared to deal with the mess your selfishness has left behind. Remember, it takes a moment to break down trust and a lifetime to rebuild it.

He will continue to hurt over your actions so make it up to him. He's going to feel insecure and not trusting of anything you say or do. You need to prove that you are there for him, that you are sorry for what happened, and that you still love him.